FAQ - Doubters Read This

Can the Seven Steps To Sex benefit you? If you're finding your lack of "luck" in the girlfriend department worrying then there is a good chance that it can. Here are some of the most common doubts and worries that people have before treating dating as a skill that can be learnt.

Is it worth spending time learning this stuff?

This is a very good question and its one I asked myself a long time ago. Obviously the philosophical question of how can you put a price on a great relationship? will crop up. But for argument's sake lets try.

Economists have calculated that a good marriage is worth approximately £100,000 per year. This is what it would cost you to physically pay for all the services a loyal spouse offers. For example; catering, companionship, sexual services, psychotherapy, nursing, childcare and so on.

Now I'm not suggesting that you will get the same level of "service" out of a girlfriend that you would out of a wife but I'd think you'd agree that it will be at least a significant proportion of that value.

If you follow my logic then you would agree that financially this is going to be worth your while. In terms of the amount you put in for the amount you are likely to get out, the cost benefit ratio speaks for itself.

Isn’t this just manipulating women?

Absolutely not.

The things that are taught here are designed to make you more attractive to women, not to trick or deceive them.

Is it possible to trick a woman into going out with you, to lie to her and promise that you’ll always be there only to break up with her a few months later? Yes, of course it is possible but you will hurt her. There is however a better way.

In my experience the guys who are the best with women are the guys who are completely honest and truthful to both women and themselves. The Seven Steps to Sex is written with this view in mind.

I do not advocate lying or anything of the sort in order for someone to get success with women. In fact I believe that if you do things that you know deep down are wrong then you are actually hampering your success, especially in the long term.

Remember: You do not need to lie to women to be good with them.

If you try to learn and practice to be successful with women that's not being "yourself" or "natural" and wrong... right?

Nope. Every man who has ever been successful with women will tell you, if you asked them that they were not born with the skill that allows them to attract women.They acquired it over many years of trial and error and made a lot of mistakes along the way.

Think about it. Everything you have ever learnt in your life about anything came from you practising it. From Karate to Mathematics to Reading and Writing to Social skills, all of it you've taught yourself at some point along the way.

Why should learning to be successful with women be any different? Why have you put it on a pedestal? Does it even deserve to be there?

If you're like I was (frustrated and horny as hell) then you'll realise that the sooner that you stop treating "dating" and "pulling women" with this holier than thou attitude, the sooner you can start getting laid. The Seven Steps to Sex cuts through all the misguided dating advice you have herd in the past and gets straight to the point.

Do I need to be a single twenty something for this to help me?

Not at all. Although this information is directed at men who are trying to find a girlfriend many people who have applied this material to existing relationships have seen an improvement in their love life.

Additionally the people who I have personally advised have been anywhere between 18 to nearly 50 and I have seen people of all ages go through the same set of processes that we are talk about on this website.

The point is that if you're sick of the standard practice of talking to some great looking women and then it never going anywhere (or even if you can't get that far) then this is the site for you.

Do I need to be good looking for this advice to work?

No. Women are not attracted to men primarily for good looks. How a man looks is very much a secondary factor in the eyes of women. Women are attracted to men primarily because they live life in an attractive manner.

I have met many men who you would not in the least bit consider to be physically attractive but who are nevertheless hugely successful with women.

You can’t just learn to be successful with women

No. As far as I am concerned as well as the thousands of men who I have met who have had fantastic success with women this is complete nonsense. For the people who have been on the other side of the looking glass this is self evident, however I understand that for people who haven't been there themselves, it can seem that these guys have always been that way.

As I said before if you ask them (and if you know one please do) they will tell you that they learnt all of it.

"Luck"... There's just no such thing.

How long will it take to learn this stuff?

Not long at all. I admit that I have been studying this topic in one form or another for just under a decade. This involved a lot of mistakes and setbacks, but I don’t want to put you through all that.

The whole point of the SevenStepstoSex.com website is to give you the insights that took me a long time to acquire and in doing so accelerate your learning process.

How long it will take will depend upon how much you decide to practice but I have known some people to completely change their for

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